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Toronto audiences were able to cast a ballot for their favourite Festival film for the Grolsch People’s Choice Award. The Grolsch People’s Choice Award: Winner — Martin Mc.

Donagh's Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri. First runner- up: Craig Gillespie’s I, Tonya. Second runner- up: Luca Guadagnino’s Call Me By Your Name. The Grolsch People’s Choice Midnight Madness Award: Winner: Joseph Kahn’s Bodied.

Second runner- up: Craig Zahler’s Brawl in Cell Block 9. First runner- up: James Franco’s The Disaster Artist. Bodied. The Grolsch People’s Choice Documentary Award: Winner: Agnès Varda and JR’s Faces Places. Second runner- up: Morgan Spurlock’s Super Size Me 2: Holy Chicken! First runner- up: Long Time Running by Jennifer Baichwal and Nicholas De Pencier. Faces, Places. International Jury Awards.

TORONTO PLATFORM PRIZE PRESENTED BY AIR FRANCE For its third year of the Platform programme of director’s cinema, the Festival welcomed an international jury comprised of Chen Kaige, Malgorzata Szumowska, and Wim Wenders. Winner: Warwick Thornton’s. Sweet Country. Jury remarks: “This is a spiritual epic taking place in 1.

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Australia’s Northern Territory. It is a great saga of human fate, and its themes of race and struggle for survival are handled in such a simple, rich, unpretentious and touching way, that it became for us a deeply emotional metaphor for our common fight for dignity.”Sweet Country. Speaking about their deliberations, the Jury statement added: “We saw twelve films from all over the world that took us into very different universes of the soul and to extremely different places on our planet. We were thankful to be able to see these films and we very much appreciated that actually exactly half of them were made by women. TIFF is leading the way, we feel. As we only had one award to give, we had to be quite radical. We also limited ourselves to only one special mention, even if other films might have imposed themselves for best acting, writing or directing.” Awarding a special mention to Clio Barnard’s Dark River, the Jury said: “This film deeply rooted in the Yorkshire countryside convinced us, as its characters and actors, its photography, its story and its sense of place were all so utterly believable and controlled, that we were totally taken by it.” THE PRIZES OF THE INTERNATIONAL FEDERATION OF FILM CRITICS (FIPRESCI PRIZES) Winner - Discovery: Sadaf Foroughi’s Ava.

Winner - Special Presentations: Manuel Martín Cuenca’s The Motive (El Autor)Ava. The Motive (El Autor)The Festival welcomed an international FIPRESCI jury composed of jury president Jonathan Rosenbaum (USA), Robert Daudelin (Canada), Martin Horyna (Czech Republic), Ivonete Pinto (Brazil), Marietta Steinhart (Austria), and Jim Slotek (Canada).

NETPAC AWARD Winner: Huang Hsin- Yao’s The Great Buddha+Jury remarks: “The NETPAC Jury awards The Great Buddha+ for depicting the interface between the haves and have- nots, with black humour and style, innovating with noir in representing the social reality of Taiwan today.”. The Great Buddha+Jury members include jury chairperson Rashmi Doraiswamy (India), Jian Hao (China), and Savine Wong (Canada). Short Film Jury Awards. The short film awards below were selected by a jury comprised of Marit van den Elshout, Johnny Ma, and Chloé Zhao. Pre- Drink. The Burden (Min Börda)IWC SHORT CUTS AWARD FOR BEST CANADIAN SHORT FILM Winner: Marc- Antoine Lemire’s Pre- Drink.

Jury remarks: “A monumental yet intimate portrayal of a woman in transition.“IWC SHORT CUTS AWARD FOR BEST SHORT FILMWinner: Niki Lindroth von Bahr’s The Burden (Min Börda)Jury remarks: “Whimsical but tragic, imaginative and just plain weird, this is exactly what one can expect from a Scandinavian musical with fish in bath robes singing out their existentialist crisis. This is a film that stands out in this program and any film program it will ever be part of.” Honourable mentions to Matthew Rankin’s The Tesla World Light (Tesla: Lumière Mondiale) and Qiu Yang’s Xiao Cheng Er Yue (A Gentle Night). Canadian Film Jury Awards. The Canadian awards below were selected by a jury comprised of Mark Adams, Min Sook Lee, and Ella Cooper. Luk' Luk'l. Les Affamés.

CITY OF TORONTO AWARD FOR BEST CANADIAN FIRST FEATURE FILMWinner: Wayne Wapeemukwa’s Luk' Luk'l. Jury remarks: “The award goes to a striking debut film that disrupts borders - of form and content and suggests new cinematic territories. This beautifully realized film offers a unique Canadian perspective, made with real compassion, insight and remarkable characters from Vancouver’s East Side.” Honourable mention to Sadaf Foroughi’s Ava. CANADA GOOSE AWARD FOR BEST CANADIAN FEATURE FILM Winner: Robin Aubert’s Les Affamés. Jury remarks: “A hybrid art- house film that proved to be something of a revelation. Wonderfully scripted and perfectly cast, this film managed the rare feat of featuring genuinely interesting and well- rounded characters; surprising dramatic and comedic moments with well thought- out multi- generational female roles (who were totally badass) while also dealing with poignant and contemporary issues, set against a striking rural backdrop and hundreds of ‘ravenous’ zombies.”Honourable mention to Simon Lavoie’s The Little Girl Who Was Too Fond of Matches (La petite fille qui aimait trop les allumettes).

Healing in the Aftermath Psychopaths and Loveafter being victimized by a psychopath, even if you’re doubting that right now. It can take a significant amount of time and effort, as with any major trauma, but it will happen. In addition to this page, please see the ROAD MAP. The illustration to the left shows Red Riding Hood being rescued from the Big Bad Wolf. I think it’s safe to say that for most of us, this isn’t going to happen.

Once the “relationship” with the psychopath ends, we must rescue ourselves. Healing is something we must purposefully pursue. We need the support of others after this trauma, but many of us find that support is hard to come by.  Many people in our lives (friends, family, and even many therapists) don’t understand psychopathy, so they may not understand the devastation we’re experiencing. As a result, they’re unable to give us the kind of support we need.

Even we may not understand it at first. We just know we’re devastated; we know something happened to us that was out of the ordinary, far beyond a relationship gone bad. Since what we’re dealing with is not the end of a regular relationship, no advice about healing after a breakup will help. We were victimized by predators who only pretended to establish a romantic relationship so they could manipulate and abuse us. But because it looked like a romantic relationship from the outside, it’s hard for people to see beyond that. Even some victims don’t see the truth, and are left believing they lost the love of their lives through some fault of their own. None of us was “on the lookout for someone as brutal as a psychopath to systematically dismantle” the way we see ourselves, as author Sandra L.

Brown, M. A., put it in her book, The Unexamined Victim: Women Who Love Psychopaths. We never expected the person who claimed to love us was really out to destroy our self- worth through cruel and methodical emotional manipulation.

But that’s the true, abbreviated story of what happened. No wonder victims don’t get the support they need; this scenario simply isn’t comprehensible to those who haven’t experienced it.(A very helpful article I highly recommend—one that will help you understand what you’re experiencing not only from a psychological perspective, but also a neurochemical one—is “The Spellbinding Bond to Narcissists and Psychopaths – What’s Happening in the Brain?” by Rhonda Freeman, Ph.

D, a neuropsycholgist. Her blog, NEUROINSTINCTS, is also excellent). One thing a victim needs is validation. Brown says “It is pathology websites, books and programs that help women heal when they find their validation in other stories, research, books, forums, and organizations designed to respond to pathological love relationships.

The validation you are seeking comes from others who have been through it.” From the article, “Recovering Without Validation.”AWord About Online Forums: In the search for support and validation, many join online forums. I don’t recommend online forums for newly traumatized people, because of the potential for secondary victimization that goes on at the hands of trolls or other survivors who may mean well, but who spread erroneous and sometimes harmful ideas.

Even so, many people do have positive experiences in forums. There is tremendous value in speaking with other survivors. But in a forum situation, there is just as much potential for harm as there is for help. Some have experienced abuse and suffered more trauma while participating in a forum (I was one of them).  Please keep this in mind and be very cautious.

If something doesn’t feel right, listen to that feeling. Part of healing is learning to trust your perceptions. To learn more, read the post “Fox In the Hen House.” Please read about emotional rape.

Knowing what happened and understanding it is vital to your healing. The Emotional Rape Syndrome — a book by Michael Fox, Ph.

D., provides deep understanding and focuses on healing. You can also read about it on this site’s page, Emotional Rape. After going through such a severe trauma, help is necessary, and there is help and support for you out there, but you need to be determined to find it. Recovery is an active process that you need to take part in. In doing so, you demonstrate to yourself that you believe in your own worth and you have faith that you will heal. Challenges for the victim of a psychopath include: Finding help and support; Recovering from harm to your psyche, heart and soul; Dealing with challenges to your ability to trust others and yourself; Breaking the ‘betrayal bond’ that keeps victims emotionally attached to their abuser; Experiencing cognitive dissonance, a key element that can stand in the way of healing, which I’ll talk about next; and. The fact that you’re not only dealing with recovery from serious trauma, you’re also dealing with the loss of the person you loved.

This piece of the puzzle is often neglected or diminished because the psychopath only pretended to love, but it is another important key to healing. Remember, the psychopath established an intense relationship during the idealization phase; without that, the manipulation and abuse could never have happened. Sofia The First Season 3 Episode 24 more. While it’s true the man or woman you loved never really existed, your love for him or her was real, and that love deserves and needs your acknowledgement, approval and compassion before you can let it go.

Read Feelings of loss and grief after the psychopath is gone. Books and websites are helpful, and by all means you should read and learn as much as you can. There are many resources listed here in the sidebar. But they are more than likely not enough to help you overcome the trauma you’ve experienced. It’s important to see a psychotherapist (psychologist or social worker) who specializes in psychological trauma and abusive relationships, if at all possible. As a result of the trauma, you may be suffering with a stress disorder or PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), major depression, panic disorder or an anxiety disorder. You’re probably struggling with difficult or even unbearable emotions, disturbing memories, intrusive thoughts, and a sense of constant danger. Many victims describe being unable to trust, feeling extremely vulnerable, experiencing rage, having obsessive thoughts, and experiencing fear and anxiety.

Their self- esteem and self- confidence are low. Some turn to alcohol or drugs or develop a physical illness, or experience  irrational and extreme behavior such as total isolation and withdrawal.